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No Sandbaggers Allowed!

What is "sandbagging"? Sandbagging is a term most often used in the game of golf. In golf it refers to players who either miss shots on purpose or outright cheat by turning in a higher score than they actually shot. This affects the handicap number that is...

Fighting Complacency

Prior to the holidays I asked a friend of mine about his business. He told me that he’d had a pretty good year but felt frustrated. For the third year in a row, he had fallen short of his annual goals but felt complacent since he’s still doing okay...

Are You Having FUN Yet?

Ok, ready or not, I’d like to plant a tune and possibly even an image in your head: do you remember Cyndi Lauper’s hit "Girls Just Want to Have Fun!" from the early 1980s? The song is so upbeat and infectious that you can’t help but feel...

The Choice is Yours

The year was 2006. In April, my father died of prostate cancer after a very tough struggle, and I was having difficulty dealing with him being gone. He was only 70 years old. A month earlier, in March, Mildred, my favorite great-aunt, had also passed away. She was...